It's Weds evening, my wife has to work late, we went out to eat with the kids. Normally, we go to Black Angus to have their prime rib specials with the mud pies which the kids love, we went to elephant bar near home instead. Watching the kids munching, enjoying their fish bate "calamari" and my wife dipping her french dip sandwich in the salty brown sauce for her simple dinner makes my heart sings. My wife never had any opinions about anything, but tonight she's started "what's up with 'you guys', beautiful wife and kids and still running around? ". I knew right then she's talking about Tiger Woods car accident and the affairs surfaced after that.

Many years ago, when Tiger Woods announced to get married to a white European model, I told my wife then, he's going to be another OJ . People get married for any reasons but true love.

I told my wife I actually felt sorry for the guy because he may be rich and famous, but he must not have a life. What? He's successful, he's rich, he got a beautiful wife, what are you talking about? NO life?

The life starts when you're born, growing... ... up, being happy and loving while living it. I bet 100 to 1 that he didn't have all those growing up. He has no education "in house", love can be taught, compassion can be taught, being happy can also be taught.

I believe sex is the lowest form of enjoyment, considered as animal enjoyment, that's why when we get married, we should have sex with love on top... pretty please. Guys who cheat on their wives because of curiosity, then satisfy your curiosity before making the commitment. Beautiful & strange girls get guys up faster, after the ejaculation, then what? Yes, guys are supposed to be a dominant species as they think, go out conquer females and show their masculinity, again, after the ejaculation, then what? roll on the side and sleep... If it's not the same as an animal, then what?

Tiger Woods has no love or compassion towards his family, may be he doesn't know how or never been taught. Especially having an affair while his wife is going to have his baby.

"don't do anything to anyone if you don't want them done to you", it's a simple concept but no one understand it or live by it. This has to be taught over and over in the family while growing up, that's why family education is more important than schools because you're growing up with it.

When people are famous, they're bound to be "politically correct" all the time in the eye of the public for the endorsements and images. Freedom doesn't exist any more, you can't joke, can't play, can't do fun things because being afraid of making mistakes. Is there a life?

When you get married for any sakes but love and wanting to build a family, the family is not real and will be gone in time. What does Tiger Woods & Elin have in common? What kind of love can exist between them? People many times mistaken infatuation with love, love lasts, infatuation doesn't. Having great sex doesn't create love, love is sharing, thinking, ideas, minds over matters. Thinking of my wife carrying our baby heavily and painfully delivery our baby make me feel I have to make her extremely happy and comfortable during this time, NOT going out and have animal sex with someone else, that's love.

Well, people said he chose his life, I doubt that, he's been brought up with his father goal to be the first best black golf player in the history. His life was chosen by someone. Again, this is only my opinion and guess.

There are so many children are forced to live the ways their parents mold them to be. They have no lives, yes, they will be successful and unhappy all their lives. Money doesn't bring happiness because being rich or poor is relative to how your minds perceive. Happiness is absolute.

My kids and my wife happiness is my life. I want them to have a life while I'm still alive, I was considered lucky, because I have my happy life and I wouldn't trade it for anything... Money or Fame.

Back to the dinner, my wife doesn't feel sorry for Tiger Woods which is the same sentiment with all my friends, well that's her opinion and I respect that. I still feel sorry for the guy, he may have money and fame, but he's extremely poor in love, compassion and happy life and he may be the result of a poorly raised family.

Now, let's talk about the new less portion & new presentation of fish bate calamari @ the Elephant bar. We go to this restaurant at least twice a month, the plate was oval and has more calamari, both of the kids shared one and content, this time, the food came in a bowl, bottom filled with shredded carrots & cucumber and top up with some calamari. We had to order the second one, the second one came with more shredded vegetable on the base, the kids finished both of them and wondered why so little. I told the restaurant, and they said it's just the presentation is different, but the portion is the same 7 oz. Whatever it is , they're saying my kids don't know what they're talking about (6 & 3). Well, let's put it this way, every 2 weeks, we spend $45 for the restaurant = $90 a month, now since they reduce the portion and ignore my kids comments, we may not go back there ever or may be once every 2 months. Economically, will they come out ahead? Do the math Elephant Bar.